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Psychic Sterling Sinclair is Your One of a Kind Psychic in the Belleville and Bay of Quinte Area

Psychic Sterling Sinclair is Your One of a Kind Psychic in the Belleville and Bay of Quinte Area

   

    
       
About Sterling Sinclair Services

Since I began professionally offering services, my business and clientele numbers have expanded and so has my international presence. I think this is due to my honest, authentic approach and original collection of services. After 8 years, I still thoroughly enjoy this collection of positive services. 

Psychic Sterling Sinclair offers local & international psychics readings, life coach / life coaching, personality profiles, traditional counseling, intuitive counseling & business consultations, specializing in relationships, future direction, spiritual guidance, self awareness & improvement, dating, paranormal, death & dying, grief & loss, life – path & purpose, divorce & marriage, gifts, fears, and careers for adult individuals, couples, groups, home parties, and bridal showers. In – person & phone / email sessions avail. This universally minded, intuitively guided, non – religious, non – judgmental, creative service is informal, caring, and LGBTQ friendly. This Quinte Region, inviting, private, park – like waterfront country cottage studio / office is nestled in the woods along Moira Lake. It is conveniently located 30 min. from Belleville & 45 min. from Trenton ( Quinte West ) between Madoc & Tweed, Peterborough & Kingston, as well as Toronto & Ottawa.

My website is http://www.auracature.com

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Many blessings to you, S

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Psychic Sterling Sinclair is Your One of a Kind Psychic in the Belleville and Bay of Quinte Area

Psychic Sterling Sinclair is Your One of a Kind Psychic in the Belleville and Bay of Quinte Area

   

    
    
   
About Sterling Sinclair Services

Since I began professionally offering services, my business and clientele numbers have expanded and so has my international presence. I think this is due to my honest, authentic approach and original collection of services. After 8 years, I still thoroughly enjoy this collection of positive services. 

Psychic Sterling Sinclair offers local & international psychics readings, life coach / life coaching, personality profiles, traditional counseling, intuitive counseling & business consultations, specializing in relationships, future direction, spiritual guidance, self awareness & improvement, dating, paranormal, death & dying, grief & loss, life – path & purpose, divorce & marriage, gifts, fears, and careers for adult individuals, couples, groups, home parties, and bridal showers. In – person & phone / email sessions avail. This universally minded, intuitively guided, non – religious, non – judgmental, creative service is informal, caring, and LGBTQ friendly. This Quinte Region, inviting, private, park – like waterfront country cottage studio / office is nestled in the woods along Moira Lake. It is conveniently located 30 min. from Belleville & 45 min. from Trenton ( Quinte West ) between Madoc & Tweed, Peterborough & Kingston, as well as Toronto & Ottawa.

My website is http://www.auracature.com

 https://www.facebook.com/PsychicSterlingSinclair


https://www.tumblr.com/blog/psychicsterlingsinclair
https://www.instagram.com/psychicsterling/
https://twitter.com/PsychicSterling
Many blessings to you, S


Psychic Sterling Sinclair: If I walk a Mile in Your Shoes, My Feet Will Bleed, August 19, 2014

Psychic Sterling Sinclair:

If I walk a Mile in Your Shoes, My Feet Will Bleed

August 19, 2014

The Olympics bring out the worst in me if my team loses because one of the players missed the easiest swing, throw or shot.  I can get so wrapped up in an Olympic game and the desperate desire for my team/country to win that I can yell profanities toward the sportsperson on the TV screen.  Like in that moment, I sound like I could have done better.  There is no way, but what happens to me?

In the heat of the moment, the game becomes personal.  I forget the pressures the person is under.  I stop listening.  Does this ever happen to you?

While immersed in the deep, throbbing, moist action of life, as bystanders we have a tendency to think we can do better than someone else.  Somehow, we imagine ourselves more successfully walking in their shoes.  It is easy to say, “do this” and “do that” to another person when your guidance is rooted in your life experience.  It is difficult to make it work when immersed in another person’s life situation.

When I was younger, minding other people’s business was a preoccupation (it seemed) of mine because it was a way for me not to acknowledge my own business that needed work.  Other people’s shoes did not look appetizing or easy to walk in – other people looked like they were simply not walked in correctly.  I thought I could walk in them better than they could walk in them.

The change for me progressively came when I moved away from home, started meeting other people and shifted my education focus to sociology, biblical studies, women’s issues and female liberation theology.   It was not until I heard stories and began to live my own life that other people’s shoes no longer fit my feet.

Have you ever tried on a 6 inch stiletto that you admired on the shelf just to find out that you can’t walk in it after you badly twist your ankle and fall into the shoe rack?  You walked in the store all sexy and put together one moment and then in another moment (and without warning) digging yourself out of a pile of shoes with your skirt pulled up and your 3 week old Brazilian showing to the sales person.

I have bought hiking boots that look great with all the right attributes and fit right at the store just to find out half way up a hill that they are too heavy for me to walk in.

As the background story comes into the picture, our ability to walk in another person’s shoes becomes far more daunting a consideration.  It is only when we truly take time to listen to the story behind the story, the secrets behind the secrets, that we see the shoes for more than they seem.  It is only then that wearing another person’s shoes does not look that easy to walk in.

In my career, I am asked questions about people’s lives.  It would be easy to make up a story or read the surface information and say do this and do that but life is not an accounting ledger book.  We can’t simply add up the lines and make a conclusion.  Life has its own life and each of our lives is different than others.  We all like to polish  or wear our shoes in ways we want people to see them, but what our shoes look like on the outside do not reflect the wear inside at the toe.

By trying on our friend’s shoes and trying to walk in them while listening as we take each step, our friend’s story is heard.

By taking time to truly listen, we learn to walk in our own weathered shoes alongside our friend wearing his/her shoes.  We no longer tell our friends how to walk in their shoes – our friends help us walk in our shoes.

When we walk together, climbing the path of life becomes easier and more meaningful for all of us.

Psychic Sterling Sinclair Auracature Master Oracle Psychic Reading Life Coach Coaching Ontario Canada Madoc Tweed Marmora Belleville Peterborough Kingston Toronto Ottawa Auracature Walk Circle Life Path August

If I Walk a Mile in Your Shoes, My Feet Will Bleed…

So,

Let’s try walking together.

You are not alone.

Love, S

PS. I still have a ways to go when it comes to the Olympics, but I am working on it. Thanks for hearing my confession and taking time to walk with me.


Psychic Sterling Sinclair Ascension Reflection of the Day, “Perspectives,” January 21, 2013

Psychic Sterling Sinclair Ascension Reflection of the Day, “Perspectives,” January 21, 2013

 

If you were to make a film of your life, what genre would you choose?

Would your life story be a horror show or a comedy?

Would you make a film that was a blockbuster even if it did not show an honest side of your truth?

What perspective would you take?

Would you take your perspective or someone else’s perspective?

Perspective – controlling, freeing, invasive, liberating, ever changing.

 

How many of us have not taken certain paths in our lives because someone voiced their perspective about us and/or our paths?  I venture to guess that most, if not all, of us have done this at least once in our lives.

About 15 years ago, at the Toronto Sky Dome, among the audience of a direct sales conference,  I was sitting far back from the stage when I heard one sentence that changed my perspective and hence – MY LIFE.

As if speaking directly to me, I heard the guest speaker say “They Don’t Pay Your Bills.”

What a reflective floodgate of personal identification and reassessment that opened for me.

The speaker was talking about “Negative Nillies” who voice their perspectives about another person’s career choice, thus altering that person’s career choice.  In his speech, he noted that people have a tendency to let other people control their directions in life.  How true that spoke to me.

I was a trained public speaker, choral vocalist, had acted in plays and won awards for visual art, public speaking and singing .  My father had never gone to see me, my work or my performances.  My trophies were never put up in the house.  When it came to going off to school, my mother told me that my father and she would not pay for my education unless I went to become a medical doctor.   I acted and sung in my first play when I was 7 years old.  However, my parent’s perspective of what was an appropriate career for me was one that they thought made much more money.  I took the life path and hung up my days as an artist.  Well, for a short while.  After I took the path they wanted, they showed no interest in my direction and I fell off the path with a debt which I now was left to pay.  Thankfully, through art and design, I supplemented my university income and paid my student debt.

The speaker said, “They Don’t Pay Your Bills.”

After following what people told me to do and missing my opportunity to follow a certain path, those very same people drifted out of my life as if they had no real importance in the first place.

Why should we say no to opportunities in life because of someone else’s opinion?  We seek to fit in and to commune to such a level that we give up opportunities of success, fortune, health, joy because someone else tells us that it is the wrong thing to do.

We want to commune, be part of a people, have friends, be respected and be loved to such a state that we have a tendency to do as someone else says.  When those people drift out of our lives, we wonder why we ever followed them in the first place.  In the end, we are left with one resounding truth…

We live our lives the way we live them.  No matter what other people told us to do, when it comes to our lives, “They Don’t Pay Our Bills” – “WE PAY OUR OWN BILLS.”

In the End, we are responsible.  In the End, we are the ones left with our lives based upon the choices we made and the paths that we took no matter if those choices were influenced by someone else’s voiced perspective.

“We Pay Our Own Bills.”

Today, as ascended ones, we are reminded that PERSPECTIVES are influential upon our decisions and life choices.  When we look upon our lives and the dreams that we had, may still have, and are now creating we will not overlook the matter of perspective.

Our dreams are our dreams.  Our perspectives are our perspectives.

Today, we release resentments, we let go of “What ifs,” we acknowledge that in life,

“We Pay Our Own Bills.”

Blessings, S

PS. The type of film that we would choose to create based upon our lives would be dependent upon the perspective that we have about our life in the situation and the time from which we hold that perspective.  So what genre of film would we choose to create?  It would depend upon perspective!

 

Today’s FB post was:

What is the common difference between: success & failure, humor & insult, helpfulness and hindrance, happiness and sadness, appropriateness and inappropriateness?  PERSPECTIVE!!!  Keeping this in mind is very helpful in life and dream fulfillment.  Don’t let matters of perspective get in your way.  Acknowledging perspectives gives one power to move on and positively alter a situation or outcome.