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Psychic Sterling Sinclair Poem – Child Abuse – Domestic Violence – When a Son Still Loves His Mom, Nov 20, 2014

Psychic Sterling Sinclair

Poem – Child Abuse – Domestic Violence

When a Son Still Loves His Mom

Nov 20, 2014

Mom and I Dance in the Rain


She sat on the step that day

She rocked me in her arms

My lips were all but silent

My eyes were screaming alarms


Here hands swung with a belt so wide

Here voice squealed of banshees

My back bruised and welted

My legs dropped like fancies


She looked as if she died that day

She wet my head with tears

I felt my mother’s worries

I breathed in all her fears


She could not stop once she’d begin

She love to hate the pain

I was her little special boy

I used to dance in the rain


Why Mom would you hurt me?

Why Mom would you start?

Many years of silence passed

I pushed Mom’s sorrow cart


She came by to see me one day

I stood outside my store

Upon the cold sidewalk

Where was my mom anymore?


She looked that day like no mom should look

She’d weathered every blow

I knew she felt what she gave me

I knew she had come to go


No words were really needed

No words could ever explain

She came to me to do one thing…

Mom and I danced in the rain.


Written by Sterling Sinclair (11/20/2014)


Love, S


Psychic Sterling Sinclair – Please Break the Silence if You Have Been Assaulted – You are not alone. November 4, 2014

Psychic Sterling Sinclair

Please Break the Silence if You Have Been Assaulted

You are not alone.  

November 4, 2014

  • Half of all women in Canada have experienced at least one incident of physical or sexual violence sinceInfographic the age of 16.1
  • 67% of all Canadians say they personally know at least one woman who has been sexually or physically assaulted.2
  • On average, every six days a woman in Canada is killed by her intimate partner.  In 2011, In 2011, from the 89 police reported spousal homicides, 76 of the victims (over 85%) were women.3
  • On any given day in Canada, more than 3,300 women (along with their 3,000 children) are forced to sleep in an emergency shelter to escape domestic violence. Every night, about 200 women are turned away because the shelters are full. 4
  • Each year, over 40,000 arrests result from domestic violence—that’s about 12% of all violent crime in Canada.5 Since only 22% of all incidents are reported to the police, the real number is much higher.”

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In Canadian Universities, Sexual Assault is quite hush.

“While the University of Windsor also has no sexual-assault policy, its Bystander Initiative, led by Senn, is one of the most respected examples of rape prevention on campuses in Canada.”

This is a Maclean’s Article from October 30, 2014

I send you my love, S

Psychic Sterling Sinclair New Age Ascension Writing, February 26, “Be Strong Today. It is Your CHOICE!”

Psychic Sterling Sinclair New Age Ascension Writing

February 26, 2013

“Be Strong Today. It is Your CHOICE!”

This is a rare public vent so forgive the tone:  “What didn’t kill me made me stronger.”

What the hell?


What didn’t kill us simply did not kill us.  In most cases it makes people weaker.  Let’s not be thankful for the benefits of the horror we experienced because it didn’t kill us.  It is our choice to learn from experiences.

Our CHOICE to not let the experience kill us is what makes us STRONGER.

We choose to be strong.

Women survivors of domestic violence often use this phrase as a banner – their strength for moving on.  Although I am a strong supporter of doing what you must do to survive and each person’s method is different, this phrase has so often presented itself as a way of not casting blame or placing ownership of the event(s) onto the spouse/lover/partner/child/etc.

If someone purposely hurts you by throwing you down the stairs, then person was not purposely trying to make you stronger.  It may not have killed you, but now the you are afraid to walk at the top of the stairs when the other person is near you.  Now you are tentative when it comes to trust.  These are not examples of being stronger.

To finally find a way to not let that happen to you and to move on – that makes you stronger.

To overcome your fear – that makes you stronger.

To demand on healthy relationships – that makes you stronger.

Today is a day to be stronger.

It is your choice to be stronger.

You can do it.

You can be strong!

L, S

FB Status:  Do not give up today.  Do not give up today.  Do not give up today.  You can do it. You Can Do It!   YOU CAN DO IT!!!!  I Love You, S  – Comment: Sometimes, some days just say: Quit!  Toss it in.  Sometimes, we fall prey of the defeatist energy to hold us in place long enough till we believe it and in turn focus the same energy upon ourselves.  Today is a day that we say, “We will NOT quit!  We will DO it!  Yes We WILL!”